Sex and sensuality are good for us, its the most nurturing connection that we have with ourselves and others and is proven to aid our biological and emotional wellbeing....but sometimes our sexual and sensual connection can be diverted or shut down...Please read on.
The homeo-dynamic model of Psychosexual therapy challenges the symptoms of the body IE sexual shutdown, erectile or vaginal behaviours concerning performance, and a multitude of emotional and mind triggered related symptoms that take us away from our true sexual and sensual journey.
Brain (memories, past experiences, arousal response, passion and desire),
Mind (thinking and beliefs around sex and relationships and themselves),
Body (organic / non-organic, bodily response),
Emotions (feelings & intuition).
You may be open to developing a model of sexual and sensual fulfilment which values your desire for pleasure through intimacy and to deepen the connection to yourself and others?
You may wish to explore and challenge sexual and sensual paradigms that have moulded you to become less than your desires?
You may want to understand how the minds desires are masked when seeded by education, by the church, family, society and step into YOUR desires and pleasure?
You may like to explore and adventure into what sexual identity, sensual intimacy, emotional liberation and masculine and feminine energies really mean to you in an open and safe space with me, free of judgement and shaming looks and language?
I have worked with many people who have presented with lack of desire, arousal, sexual identity or orgasm concerns. Others have worked through sexual trauma or paraphilias that they had previously been shamed for.
Psychosexual therapy aids the recovery of physical conditions of the body like erectile dysfunction, rapid or retarded ejaculations, vaginismus, hypo or hyper libido + many others.
Evolving sexual identity or diversity can lead to a new erotic paradigm. Sex therapy can help you to shift your perspective by openly discussing your sensual and sexual concerns with a trusted therapist.
Psychosexual therapy can be seen as a journey of developing, understanding or reclaiming ownership of your sexual energy, sensual body and sexual choices.
Through therapeutic enquiry & psychosexual education, you get to make sense of your sexual evolution. Once you have a fuller understanding of what you wish to achieve we will develop a sensual and sexual pathway that's tailored specifically to your needs, desires and new understanding.
Recovery from Sexual abuse and sexual violence is a common reason that clients attend psychosexual therapy. Unwanted sexual experiences can lead to traumatic triggers. These triggers can leave the survivors avoiding any sexually charged dynamic or adversely, becoming overtly sexualized as if re-enacting the abuse and the resultant feelings of shame.
I work sensitively with sexual abuse survivors and support the recovery of their sexual lives from complex trauma. This is actioned by providing safety and stabilisation resources throughout the sessions. These resources allow for the development of the sexual journey free from the unwanted sensate triggers related to the trauma.
I felt honoured earlier in my career to have spent a year working for a charity dedicated to counselling men and their partners to heal and process unwanted sexual experiences and sexual abuse.
A post qualification addendum to training as a Psychosexual therapist raised a desire to become knowledgeable in Tantra & Taoist sexual philosophies both contemporary and historical. Tantra and Taoist exercises deepen connection to the body and spiritual sense of self and can enhance your intimate bond to your lover(s)/ partner/ beloved. Resources are only included as home assignments for individual and couples IF after discussion there is a consensual agreement.
Sexual and sensual experiences when met freely develop the healing energy to change the neural pathways of the brain. Neural plasticity comes with frequent challenging of old internalised paradigms that no longer afford you the sensual or sexual fruits that you wish to eat.
Clients seek out sex therapy or sex coaching for many reasons, including to explore and make sense of their sexual desire(s) of BDSM/kink and fetish play.
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Common presenting issues.
I work with clients regardless of Gender identification, Sexual orientation or relational status.
Sensual and Sexual coaching
Sensual and sexual coaching is focused primarily on techniques to enhance your bodily responses. The focus may be around ejaculation control or vaginal numbness or raise issues where you wish to expand and introduce new sexual or sexual games with your partner.
This is a brief 6 session model that allows for a spring clean and tune-up for you and your relationship.
Personal Interests and growth
I have spent many years attending workshops, talks and gaining resources through Tantra, Taoism teachings and the sex-positive community.
Exploring and expanding through the dynamics of gender has led me to attend Mens groups and deepen my understanding around the Mature masculine and Mature feminine concepts within our souls. After all, we arrived on this earth as a result of both the feminine and masculine ingredients, did we not ?
These avant-garde resources support the biological, physical and energetic/spiritual growth and compliment the range of resources and exercises that clients have proven to work.
At all times your boundaries and levels of consent are monitord and checked in with. Your levels of resistance are fully appreciated and talked through in a non-shaming way.
Contact me: @08
Or Call/ Text 07478- 541- 231 .