During my career as a Psychosexual (Sex) therapist I have worked with many people who have presented with lack of desire, arousal or orgasm concerns.
Others have worked through a sexual trauma or re-discovered a sensual or sexual predilection that they had previously been shamed for.
Evolving sexual identity or diversity can lead into a new erotic paradigm. Sex therapy can help you to shift your perspective by hearing and openly discussing your sensual and sexual concerns.
Psychosexual therapy could be seen as a journey of reclaiming ownership of your body and sexual choices. This can be done by developing a sensual and sexual pathway that's tailored specifically to your unique experience of your sexual and sensual development of the self.
Sex therapy also has a behavioural aspect that aids the recovery of conditions like erectile dysfunction, vaginismus, hypo or hyper libido + many others.
All these conditions can be worked through to bring the body back to homeostasis and the feeling of completeness.
Recovery from Sexual abuse and sexual violence is a common reason that clients attend psychosexual therapy. Unwanted sexual experiences can lead to traumatic triggers. These triggers can leave the survivors avoiding any sexually charged dynamic or adversely, becoming overtly sexualized as if re-enacting the abuse and the resultant feelings of shame.
I work sensitively with sexual abuse survivors and support their recovery of their sexual lives from complex trauma.
This is actioned by providing safety and stabilisation resources throughout the sessions. These resources allow for the development of the sexual journey free from the unwanted sensate triggers related to the trauma.
I felt honoured earlier in my career to spend a year with a charity: www.mankindcounselling.org that supports men and their partners to heal and process unwanted sexual experiences and abuse. Sexual abuse amongst men goes unreported due to shame, guilt, and masculine bravado.
My training as a Psychosexual therapist followed my exploration into Tantra & Taoist sexual philosophies both contemporary and historical.
Sacred sexuality has lent great gifts to society in the forms of developing a conscious connection with our bodies through diet, touch, sound, exercise and rituals. Erotic energy is transformational, but only if you feel empowered to allow it in.
Sexual and sensual experiences when met freely develop the healing energy to change the neural pathways of the brain.
I have worked with many couples and solo clients that had wished to explore, re-romanticize, re-sexualised and re-energise their relationships, with much success.
Another reason that clients seek out sex therapy is to explore and make sense of their sexual desire(s) of BDSM/kink and fetish play and how to communicate their desires to their partners.
Are you willing to weave a new non-judgemental sexual landscape to be at the heart of your sexual and sensual future?
Do you feel ready to work through psychosexual and relational issues ? Email
Common presenting issues.
I work with clients regardless of Gender identification, Sexual orientation or relational status.